Was your today just like your yesterday?? Is that all you have envisioned for your life is for each day to be the same as the next?? I don’t know about you, but to me that sounds pretty boring. 
 
Why do you think it is that so many people do the same thing day in and day out? I’m sure some do it because it’s all they know how to do. They have been conditioned to follow the crowd and not make waves. 
 
That might be all well and good if you were a robot! But guess what??? You’re not! You are a living, breathing, human being created by God in his image to be a success! Isn’t that amazing?? 
 
Who are we to deny ourselves the magnificent life that we were created for. God has a plan for us yet it is up to us to figure out what that plan or purpose is! 
 
For some this may come easy, while for others it may be very difficult. As for me….this was (is) very difficult. You see God has given me many talents, so many that I have yet to master any of them. I’m sure you have heard the expression “jack of all trades, master of none” well that’s how I feel. 
 
I am still looking for the ONE thing that I am really good at, and you know what? I think I have found it…..The one thing I am good at is being ME! 
 
That’s who God created me to be…..ME! Why should I want or feel like I  
need to be more? I have everything I need, I have been given the gift of being adaptable. Isn’t that awesome??? 
 
I hope that through my writings I can be of some sort of help to you… to help you understand the most important thing there is to understand……yourself! 
 
I have been through almost anything you can imaging in my lifetime and still going through trials and tribulations. But I know that God has created me to be a success and that’s what I am…..a success! 
 
I hope that I can some how be instrumental in helping you become the success that you desire and that God created you to be. 
 
I would like to invite you leave any comments, suggestions or topics that you would like to hear about…..knowing more about you will help me to help you! 
 
You are Awesome! 
 
Live, Laugh, Love, 
 
Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~~

We live in a time where we don’t really live, we just exist. We get into a routine where we get up, go to work, worry about money, eat, stress over our jobs, take care of the kids, watch TV, eat some more, stress and worry a little more, take care of the household chores, go to bed, then get up and do it all over again and again.

Your purpose in life is not to live a routine existence full of chores and worry and just playing it safe.

You should not accept this mundane mindless existence because you and everyone else has a mission and a purpose in life. If you have no purpose, you have no passion.

If you have no passion then you are cheating yourself out of the most exciting fulfilling life imaginable.

Not living to your authentic self can create a void and a feeling of emptiness that leaves you feeling incomplete. You begin to wonder if you should be doing something different with your life. Things just don’t feel right and you end up feeling like there is a hole in your soul.

Then you may try to fill that hole or that void by abusing your body with drugs or food or by submerging yourself in fruitless relationships.

Have you ever felt lonely even when you are in a group of people? Have you ever talked to others but never totally feel listened to? Do you feel misunderstood and like you just don’t belong anyplace?

I have felt that way and it’s not a good feeling. You just feel like a part of you has died which leaves you feeling so lonely and unloved.

The truth is that you are Lovable! You need to begin your journey to your authentic self by loving yourself first!

Give yourself the freedom to love! Love yourself! Be Happy!

When you begin to love yourself then your uniqueness will begin to emerge. You need to live your life from the inside out.

Be who your are, your authentic self, not who you think you are supposed to be.

Once you start living your life with an authentic sense of self, your energy level rises and you begin to feel alive and passionate . You become so much more successful in your life by being who you want and need to be.

Dare to dream! Dare to do! Dare to become!

You were created to be a success!

You are awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~

I guess there is really no need for me to tell you that we are living in troubled times right? I know there are many people out there suffering, don’t let yourself become a victim, continue to move forward.

I know this may sound a little strange but you need to just “Let Go!”

Let go of all the negative and hurtful things in your life. Letting go of these things will allow them to be replaced or healed by something better.

Don’t hold on to the parts of your life that aren’t working, if you hold on too tightly there is no room for it to heal.

Have you ever thought about why you are unhappy with your life, your career, your finances, your love life and your health? Why these things aren’t working?

Could it be because of fear? Have you ever thought “what if I can’t find some “thing” or some “one” better? If you continually feel and think this way then the situations will only worsen.

You need to start thinking about what you want and not what you don’t want because your thoughts create your experiences. So why not create something wonderful? You have the power!

If you can believe it you can achieve it!

Recapture your childlike sense of wonder and view the world as the magical place that it is. Open up your mind and let the magic begin. There are miraculous things all around you, things that we don’t take time as adults to see because they seem so small or so simple.

Have you ever noticed how a child can find happiness in the simplest things? It’s like on Christmas morning when a child is opening their gifts, maybe you spent a lot of money on the gift they just opened only to find them later having more fun playing with the box or the paper rather than the item that was in the box.

Become like a child and have fun with the wrapper! lol Never lose that awesome sense of wonder. Don’t worry about the small stuff…..it’s just stuff.

Be joyful and let your light inspire everyone around you!

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~

Did you realize that if your life is boring that it’s your own fault? It’s true, You have no one to blame but yourself.

It is a common misconception that someone else can make you happy, that’s just not true, because if you are not happy with yourself then chances are that you won’t be happy with someone else either.

You need to create your happiness! Create who you are! Discover your passions and begin to live your life on purpose!

If you aren’t real sure what your passion is then start experimenting, become adventurous and try new things, be excited about life.

The more things you love the happier you will become.

“Stop and smell the roses “ I’m sure you have heard that expression before right? Do you really understand what it means? It means to slow down and see the beauty in the world around you, pay attention to the details, feel the sun on your face and the wind in your hair, appreciate the things around you.

I remember a time when I was married and my kids were small, they would be wanting their dads attention and he was always sitting in his chair with a pencil and paper always figuring. They would go to him and ask “dad what are you doing?” and he would always answer “figuring” and they would ask “figuring what?” He would say “figuring out how to make a living”.

What he didn’t realize was that he was missing out on all the precious moments that he could have been spending with his children while he was sitting there “figuring”

After the kids were older and didn’t care that he was sitting there figuring, he was left wondering what happened. He lost his family because he was so busy figuring out how to make a living that he forgot to make a life!

Don’t let that happen to you. Go out there and make a life and the living will follow.

You don’t have to have money to be a success, you were already created to be a success!

If you love yourself and your life that is the greatest success you could ever ask for!

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy  @~}~~~~~~

What does this all mean you ask……It means that Life isn’t about Finding Yourself, It’s about Creating Yourself!!….. you need to come into your own existence by creating the most perfect “Lovable You!”

If you Love yourself then you will have no choice but to attract love to you, which in turn will result in Success!

The meaning of Success is; the achievement of something desired, planned or attempted. Don’t you desire love and happiness? Of course you do…everyone desires to be loved and to be happy and these are the most important elements in success.

I know you may be thinking that success means to be rich and famous and that is partly true. But you can be rich and famous and not be loved and happy.

Which sounds better to you?

You know it really is true that money can’t buy happiness. It can make life easier but it doesn’t guarantee happiness or love.

Life was meant to be enjoyed so make life a journey and have fun…Live, Laugh and Love!

I like the way Erma Bombeck put it when she said:

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~

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They say it takes 21 days to form a habit … so how have you done so far on your New Year’s resolution? Or did you forget about it already or just say “oh well I will start on it tomorrow”?

If you haven’t started then I’m sure you are not alone nor are you alone in waiting ‘till tomorrow….But if you Don’t start you will never get there! You have to keep your goal in front of you at all times….write it down and carry it with you, read it several times a day.

So what if tomorrow never comes? Will you be satisfied with what you did today or in your life? If not then there is no better time than now to get started.

Don’t live in the past because it is gone, there is nothing you can do to change it, it’s done, it’s over, time to move ahead. Don’t live your life in regret because it really serves no purpose.

William Durant once said “Forget past mistakes. Forget failures. Forget everything except what you are going to do right now and DO IT! Very good advice!

As long as you have done your best you should have nothing to regret, all anyone can expect of you is that you do your best. That in itself makes you a success.

Don’t be afraid of failing or of what others might think of you, that’s not what is important, You are!

I heard a song the other day and I think it was awesome and had such a powerful message. It was by the group NickelBack … “If today were your last day”

This one part captured my attention…..”you know it’s never too late to shoot for the stars, regardless of who you are , so do whatever it takes ‘cause you can’t rewind a moment in this life, let nothing stand in your way”

Let nothing stand in the way! You are already a success so Live like there is no tomorrow because tomorrow may never come. Never give up on your dreams and never give up on you!

You can have everything you want in your life, you just have to keep moving and never give up. Focus on what it is that you really want and just go for it, don’t be afraid to fail because that’s how you learn. Figure out what you did wrong and try it again and again till you get the results you want.

You can do it I know you can. Try the 21 day challenge and see how it works ok? If the goal you are seeking it truly your hearts desire this will work, it has been proven over and over again.

Let this year be your year to shine! I know you have it in you, you are Awesome! So get to work! And remember that I am here to help you, I want to see you succeed and reach your goals.

Let me know how you are doing and what I can do to help ok?

Till we meet again……

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~

WOW …..it’s amazing that it’s already the beginning of a new year.

I would like to wish you all the Success, Wealth, Health and Happiness you are looking for in the year 2009.

If nothing ever changed then things would always be the same…..so if you are not happy with your life you need to make some changes NOW!

What better time to start living the life of your dreams than right now, the beginning of the new year?

It’s time to throw out all those bad habits and replace them with new productive ones. I will do my best to help you become the success you were created to be by providing you with encouragement, thoughts and insights of my own and to help you in finding the tools needed to get you to where you want to be.

Before I can help you find these tools I need to know what it is that you need and what I can do for you. If you would, please take a moment to leave me a comment and tell me a little about you and what obsticles you are having it would help me to better help you.

I am so excited and looking forward to hearing from you and to share this journey of a New Year with you.

You were born for Greatness! Never give up on yourself or your dreams, stay focused and keep motivated and you will be the success you are so longing to achieve.

Let’s make this an Awesome Year! Together we can do it!

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

‘Tis The Season to be Jolly falalalalalalalala

This is the time of year that everyone seems to enjoy the gift of GIVING!

There is just something magical about Christmas. I don’t know maybe it’s because we all revert back to our childhood when everything seemed so much easier and we were so much happier.

I think we could all take a few lessons from children.

You see children know the true meaning of manifestation…They know that if they want something bad enough and wish hard enough for it then that wish will somehow come true. Why do you think they have a wish-list and then send that list to Santa??? Because they know Santa delivers….all they had to do was ask and believe.

The funny part of that is….that we (as parents or adults) are the ones that told them that all they had to do was believe…….so what happened to us?? Why did we stop believing yet still tell our kids to believe?

When we become older our wants and wishes might have a tendency to become a little bigger and harder to get because we now have to WORK for the things we want and that takes the “magic” out of them.

It seems like when we become adults and stop believing in Santa then other things we believe in…such as ourselves…seem to just get harder. We begin to hear our parents say things like “DO you think money grows on trees?” or “If you want something bad enough you have to work for it”

Why do we have to make things harder?? Things shouldn’t be harder just because we are growing up. Maybe we should start thinking like a kid again.

We need to put the magic back into our lives and start dreaming again…..make life exciting again… Dare to Dream and Dream BIG! If you can believe it you can achieve it.

Never give up on your dreams….better yet never give up on yourself….you have the power to make it all happen. Don’t let anyone tell you that your dreams are stupid or unattainable because they are not! They are a part of who you are….special and magic.

Take time this Holiday Season to put the magic back in Christmas and back in your life. Make this a time of giving and gratitude and see the change it makes in you and those around you.

Giving doesn’t have to be hard or costly, it can be something as simple as a smile or lending a helping hand to someone in need.

Remember no matter how bad things in your life may seem, there is always someone out there worse off than you…So be grateful for what you have. Develop an attitude of gratitude and feel the magic begin to grow.

God Bless You and keep you safe as you celebrate this Holliday Season and don’t forget your wish list ;)

You are Awesome!

Live, Love, Laugh,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Did you get everything accomplished this year?? Did you follow through on all your New Year’s Resolutions? I know I didn’t…..because I didn’t make any lol.

I figure “why make a resolution and set myself up for disappointment?” lol Have you ever felt that way? How many people do you think manage to accomplish their resolution anyway?

Well I’m sure not many, and why do you think that is? I think it’s because they aren’t focused or truly committed to fulfilling the resolution in the first place. They just as well wish it.

If you really want to make a resolution then be committed to making it happen. Set a goal and get a clear vision of what it will be like “after” you have achieved it. Yes you read that right…”after” you have achieved it. Imagine that it has already happened, what’s it like? Is it everything you thought it would be? If the answer is yes then figure out how to get there and go for it!

Get excited about it. Tell someone you know so that they can hold you accountable for following through on your goal. It helps to have a support team because there may be time when you will feel like giving up and your team will help keep you on track.

Make sure your goal is attainable and that you are ready to do what it takes to make it happen. You can’t just say “I’m going to lose 40 pounds this year” and then sit around and eat everything in site or say “I’m going to be rich and famous” and then do nothing to move toward that goal, you have to have a plan.

Ok so are you ready to make this resolution a reality and make next year the best year ever? Then now is the time to get started. Get a clear vision in you mind of what you want and take the appropriate action to get you to your desired destination. You will be glad you did.

Don’t surrender Your Dreams….Surrender Your Control! You can do it!

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I got some great news today, I think my dad is going to be ok!!! He went to the Dr. the first of the week for some test and at first they said they would have to do them over because they were inconclusive, but then later they said that they had several different Dr.’s or whatever look at the results and came to the conclusion that the growth that was in his heart was all but gone.

If that is true That’s GREAT News!!! That means that he won’t have to have the open heart surgery. WoooHooo

This has been a long battle for my family but the power of prayer is a miracle.

Situations like these make you realize just how precious life truly is and how quickly it can be taken away from you.

That’s why it is so important to live your life with a purpose! Believe in yourself and Never Give Up!

Life is too short to spend it or should I say waste it on things that have no purpose. Don’t live your life in the negative or in the past….it serves no purpose….you can’t change the past but you can design your future.

Live a life of Gratitude, be thankful for the things you have.

Just think about it, there are a lot of people worse off than you! Right?? Just think about what my dad has been going through. Can you imagine thinking that you were going to die or feeling bad enough that maybe you wish you could? I’m sure those thoughts crossed dad’s mind a time or two, yet he didn’t give up!

Never give up on yourself or on your dreams, Love your life and yourself and you will be the success that you were created to be!

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~~~