Did you know that it is your birthright to love and honor yourself? You need to realize that you are a wonderful, special person and there is no one else like you – unless you happen to have an identical twin – you are one-of-a-kind! Doesn’t that make you feel a little special?? Well it should, because you are. You are a gift that God gave to himself, made in his own image, someone he could love and cherish. So Yes! You are worthy of loving and being loved.
It is sad to think that there are so many people with self-esteem issues today. Having a good self-esteem allows you to accept yourself and live life to the fullest. Self-esteem is how you estimate yourself, the value that you put on yourself. It’s not the same as having confidence contrary to what some might think. A person can be confident, attractive even world famous and yet have low self-esteem issues.
We commonly think that self –esteem is merely about how we feel about ourselves and that we either have positive or negative self-esteem which is determined simply by how we think and feel about ourselves and how we think others think and feel about us. It’s all on you, no one has the power to make you feel any less of yourself, the power is all yours and how you think about yourself.
Our feelings and emotions do not exists alone or have independent existence….we do not simply feel….for every thought and emotion we have there is a corresponding thought that we have about ourselves that generated the experience of self-esteem.
Self-esteem is really about our thinking and more specifically about the thoughts that we develop or create about ourselves. These thoughts are what we need to change.
Low self-esteem is actually quite a widespread problem and if you suffer from this problem it can actually cause more, even serious problems unless you can find a way to overcome it.
No one else knows you better than You! There is an e-book that can help you to build your self-esteem called “How to Build Your Self-Esteem in Just One Weekend” It is full of tips and exercises that will help you to combat that negative inner voice. It will also teach you how to get help from those around you, how to use positive affirmations and there is a self–esteem quiz to help you find out if you do indeed have low self-esteem. Take a few minuets to check out this e-book and see if it’s right for you, after all…what have you got to lose?
If you don’t think this e-book is right for you or if you have some other special need or interest please feel free to let me know and I will do my best to help you find what you are looking for. Click Here!
Live, Love, Laugh,
Kathy
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