Let’s talk about our “comfort zone”  Do you really know what your comfort zone is or what that means?  Your comfort zone is that place where you feel safe, where things are routine and predictable.  Sounds like a good place to be doesn’t it?  Well it’s far from it!  If you are being complacent and satisfied in your comfort zone then little to your knowledge you are not growing…and if you are not growing then what are you doing?? Right, if you are not growing…you are dieing. Having low self-esteem plays a huge role in keeping us in our comfort zone.  Sometimes what we call procrastination, lack of motivation, or boredom is really just another way of saying “comfort zone’

Once you have settled into your comfort zone it is hard to break free to be the success that we were created to be. Your self-esteem plays a very important role in all of this. Did you know that by the age of 6 we have all been programmed with the fear of failure and rejection? That’s right, by the age of 6!  That is sad that we put that kind of pressure on our children. These fears usually set the limits of your comfort zone both high and low, and you quickly learn how you can stay within your limits. You know how to do just enough not to get criticized or rejected and how to avoid failure…..you slip into your comfort zone, you stay there, and try to avoid any feelings of fear and anxiety. Your fears hold you back from most of the amazing things that are possible for you. Fear is a killer!

One way to combat fear is love, Love of Self and self-esteem. This is the way out!   If you learn to love yourself, the less likely you will be to fear failure and rejection and the more likely you will step out of your comfort zone and take the needed risk and action that you need to take to live outside the box and reach for your goals and desires, to live the life you dream of.

You have to make a decision, do you want to sit there in your comfort zone and get what you have always gotten? or are you ready to step outside of your zone and live a life of greatness, the life of your dreams? the choice really is yours, no one can make it for you.

So do yourself a favor and work on creating higher self esteem, learn to become lovable, it’s all a mind set and there are products and information out there to help you to do just that. There is an e-book “How to Build Higher Self-Esteem in Just One Weekend” that is full of information and exercises to help you change and improve your self-esteem. If you want to push yourself a little further then there is a program with several audio’s called “Social Strategies” that gives you exercises that will help you to step outside the box and leave your comfort zone.

If you have no idea what you are capable of achieving then you should read the e-book “Science of Success” it is an A-Z guide designed to help you understand how powerful your mind really is.

Let me stop here and leave you with this….You can achieve anything that you can imagine! but you have to BELEIVE it.

Live, Love, Laugh,

Kathy

P.S. here is something else that might be of interest to you…”The DNA of Success” it will help you to discover your core desires.