Your view of yourself effects your whole life! It is your choice to be either a positive or negative person. Your self-esteem effects every aspect of your life whether you realize it or not.
You need to understand that you were not an accident! God has a special plan for your life and it is up to you to fulfill it. God does not create junk, you are a person of value, created to make a unique contribution to the world.
I know we can get caught up in the all the negative things in the world but you have to keep the thought in mind that you are a “very special person” and there is no one else quite like you in the world. That in itself should make you feel special.
You need to learn to appreciate who you are. You may not be able to do everything perfect but that’s ok, no one expects you to be perfect, and besides being perfect doesn’t make you any more special or loved. You just need to have a positive self image and there are many ways you can work on that.
You need to first assess who you are and how you feel about “you”. I know from experience that this is not always an easy thing to do, as a matter of fact….it is very difficult!
Honestly I know how you feel, I have been there, and on some days I still go there. Sometimes the “poor me” role seems a little easier to deal with but it doesn’t help you move forward in a positive way and besides that….no one wants to hear it! They don’t care about your problems. It took me a long time to learn these things and I am still learning, it’s the only way to over come and conquer your fear of inadequacy and low self esteem.
If you feel you can’t do this alone then get help. Enlist the help of a friend or someone you trust to help you work on the areas of your life you feel you can’t handle on your own. And if you are like me you will just muddle through and try to do it on your own and that’s ok too. If I could I would like to help you in your search for help. “How to Build Your Self-Esteem in Just One Weekend” is full of information, evaluations and exercises to help you get on your way to a more self confident powerful you!
I will always be on the look out for more products and information that I feel can be of help in your quest for a more lovable you as I am on the same journey.
Do not degrade what God has created, we are all perfect in his site.
You Are Awesome!
Live. Laugh, Love,
Kathy
Here are a few other items that might be of help:
DNA of Success by Jack Zufelt
Social Strategies by Jon Mercer
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