Self Love: The love of one’s self; desire of personal happiness; tendency to seek one’s own benefit or advantage.

Loving yourself unconditionally doesn’t mean you have to love everything you have ever done, I know I have made some mistakes in my life that I am certainly not proud of but you have to just call them mistakes and learn from them. Don’t dwell or focus on the past events in your life, forgive yourself for your mistakes and if you can correct them so you don’t do them again.

Forgiving your self is very important because if you can forgive yourself you will be better able to forgive others. You have to forgive and love yourself before you can love and forgive someone else.

How you feel about yourself regulates how others feel about you. You may wonder how others know how you feel about yourself but it can be something as simple as the way you walk or talk about yourself, your appearance or just the vibrations you are sending out.

I know many of us have the fear that there is a fine line between loving yourself and being egotistical there fore we minimize our accomplishments. We believe that people should love us for who we are not for what we do.

The difference is that ego operates out of fear and relies on outside sources and self love comes from within. Fear is a killer, is drains the life right out of you so don’t be afraid to love yourself.

Most egotist have low self esteem which makes it hard for you to feel that you deserve to be loved, but everyone deserves to be loved even by yourself. If you need help with your self esteem I suggest you incorporate the help of someone you love and trust to help you but if you need to try to work on this yourself you might want to check out ” How to Build Your Self-Esteem in Just One Weekend ” there you will find many tips and exercises to help you be on your way to a more lovable you in a very short time.

I wish you all the best in finding the best “YOU” that you can be! and remember…YOU ARE AWESOME!

Live, Love, Laugh,

Kathy