What does it mean to you to be loveable? Not just by someone else but by YOU! Do you unconditionally Love Yourself or do you let others determine your worth? Do you like who you are? Are you happy with the way you look? Do you think you are smart, funny, or maybe even unique?  Are you free to be you? These are a few of the questions you need to ask yourself and truthfully answer so you can assess how unconditionally you love and accept yourself.You need to feel free to be yourself, and that is something I have struggled with throughout my life. I always thought that I had to be what everyone else thought I should be and I was afraid that if I didn’t “be and do” what others thought I should that they wouldn’t like me and would treat me poorly. That is the worst thing you could ever do to yourself, never deny who you are to please someone else. You have to break free from worrying about what others think of you and concentrate on what you think of “you”. It has taken me a long time to figure all this out and I am still learning every day. It’s all about knowing what you want and getting in touch with your thoughts and feelings. You have to take ownership of who you are and stop letting other people control you, your thoughts, your feelings, your self worth, that’s not you, you are not a puppet. You are a unique individual and you need to take charge of your life to be happy. If someone doesn’t like you for who you are don’t try to change yourself for them, you deserve better than that. Do you really think that you can deny yourself of you and still be happy? I don’t think so, not truly happy, I have been there done that. Don’t get me wrong I am sure you can convince yourself that you are doing the right thing and that everything will work out but you are just in denial. I think I felt like I didn’t deserve to be happy, that I was inferior and needed someone to tell me what to do; that way I didn’t think I would be held accountable if things didn’t work out because I did as I was told. How crazy is that? You need to step up and take responsibility for yourself. Take steps to find out what makes you tick, your likes and dislikes. Feel free to be yourself. Know that you are ok just the way you are. You are special and there is no one else exactly like you. You learn what you live so live your life to the fullest, be positive, treat others the way you would like to be treated. Love unconditionally and yes that includes your self.

Becoming Lovable is a journey through self discovery. You are who you are and no one has the right to change you except you. Only you can give someone permission to control you and treat you poorly and why would you want to do that? You deserve so much more. I want to help you on your road to self discovery if you will let me, because I think ….You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy