Do you ever feel like there is something missing in your life, that there should be something more? Are you looking for something but not really sure what it is? Maybe you are lacking love in your life, the love of yourself. It’s hard to feel emotionally whole when you aren’t in touch with who you are, you just feel like a piece of you is missing.The time has come for you to find that lovable person you have been hiding. Nothing is ever going to change until you do. It’s just like the saying “Do what you have always done and you will get what you have always gotten” so if you are tired of getting the same old thing make a few changes and just see what happens.One of the first things I did that really made a change in my life was to get rid of the negative outlook I had on life. Then I stopped complaining all the time about every little thing that didn’t go the way I wanted it to. When someone would ask “How are you today” I would answer by saying something like “things could be better” or “do you really want to know” then I would proceed to tell them something that was going bad in my life and you know what? People DO NOT want to hear it, they have their own problems. Now when someone is to ask me how I am I just give them a big smile and say “Just Peachy” or “I’m great how, are you?” You might be surprised at the response you get and at how much better it will make you both feel.                                                                                        There really is way too much negative things in the world that can have an effect on you and you not even realize it, just look at the news and all the bad stuff on there; violence, war, the economy, illness the list goes on and on. I stopped watching the news, it’s no wonder people have nightmares when they watch the news right before they go to bed.Life is too short to dwell on the negative. Start trying to be more positive and see what kind of difference it makes in the way you feel, mentally and physically. Begin to take care of yourself first and see that your needs are being met. Don’t be afraid to tell people what you want, people can’t read your mind and if you don’t tell them what you are feeling or what you want or need they just might not know. That is an area that I have always fallen a little short in, I expect people to know what I want and how I feel and I find it very difficult to ask for things.  Remember too, if you don’t know what you want or how you are feeling chances are no one else is going to know either. Take a chance and say “no” every once in a while and take note of how that tiny little word has so much power. You are more powerful than you give yourself credit for and it’s time to unleash that power and become everything that you desire. You were born for Greatness!If you are needing a little more help becoming that lovable, powerful person that you have hidden inside you, stick with me and I will continue to share what I have learned with you and try to guide and direct you as to where you can look for more help and information. If there is an area you would like to know more about or an area that you or a loved one are struggling with feel free to let me know and I will do all I can to help you. I have been there and I know what it’s like and there is hope.You are Awesome! Live, Laugh, Love, Kathy