It begins with loving yourself…
Nov
21
By: ladyfitzi | Discussion (0)
What is it that you need or want out of life that would make you happy? Sounds like an easy question doesn’t it? Well for the majority of us it really is Not easy to answer at all. Most people would probably say Money! After all money makes the world go round right? Money alone can not make you happy, it might be a quick short fix but that’s about it. Others might say a new home or a new car, maybe even a new relationship, but then again these are only things and things cannot make you happy.

The only thing that can make you happy is “You”! Happiness is a choice! not a bunch of superficial things, they just temporarily fill a void.

The first step to happiness is loving yourself first, the rest will follow. Becoming Loveable is really not that hard to do because you were “born lovable” but somewhere along the way in your journey to adulthood we come in contact with negative energies and people that rob us of our lovability, others that have lost their way to happiness.

Some of these people just don’t know any better because that’s how they grew up and that’s all they know. They think that if they aren’t happy then no one should be happy, so they make every effort to make the lives of those around them just as miserable as they are.

But I know you are different! and you want more out of life than just living it, you want all the happiness and excitement that you deserve and you are going to do everything you can to find it and you know that to do that you must take action! Happiness and all the good things in life are not just going to come to you because you want them, You have to make an effort and move toward what you want and become the lovable happy person that God created you to be! I am here to help you to find the tools to do just that.

You are Awesome!

Live, Laugh, Love,

Kathy @~}~~~~~~~~~~

 



Nov
14
By: ladyfitzi | Discussion (2)
It’s getting close to the holliday season …now that Halloween is over….oh and by the way Halloween was a blast. My costume turned out Great!

I make my costumes and this one I must say was one of my best yet. I was a he-she lol If I can figure out how do do it I will post a picture for you to see just how crazy it was.

I really had a good time with this costume. I wore it to work and then went out in the evening with it on. there really were some crazy costumes out there that night.

I think it is great to see people dressing up in the silliest costumes just to have a good time. A few years ago I never would have dressed up like that for fear that someone would make fun of me but you know what? I stopped thinking that way….life is too short to worry about what other people think of you. What’s more important is that you feel comfortable being you and if you want to put on a costume and have fun…then do it!

Ok I guess I really didn’t explain my costume did I? well for those of you that don’t know what my made-up word “HE-SHE” is….it’s a half man and half woman….yes I wore a dress on one side with the long hair, make-up, stockings and sandals and on the other side I wore a vest, pants, a tie, short hair and a drawn on facial hair lol….like I said it was great.

It’s really kind of fun to just act silly sometimes. I was standing there and my feet started hurting so I started tapping my foot and acting like I was dancing …but just the girl side was doing it. When I would catch someone looking at me I would just tell them ” typical man, he doesn’t want to dance” I just had a good time joking with people, it was great!

We need to take the time to do things like this a little more often, why wait? Step out of the box and out of your comfort zone and see what’s it’s like . Take a chance and let the real you come out.

You are Awesome!

Kathy  @~}~~~~~~~~~~~~~